【相關(guān)】對(duì)比：他的愛(ài)是一時(shí)還是一世？（上）

9. A “For Now” is replaceable; a “Forever” is certain.
“愛(ài)一時(shí)”的男朋友是可替代的；“愛(ài)一世”的男朋友只有一個(gè)。

When you find the man you could spend your life with, you know deep in your soul this is right. All of your boyfriends before, you’d always felt slightly uneasy about.
當(dāng)你遇到可以共度一生的男人時(shí)，你在心靈深處就知道這是對(duì)的；而在這之前的歷任男朋友，你都曾感覺(jué)多少有點(diǎn)不自在。

10. A “For Now” is like; a “Forever” is love.
“愛(ài)一時(shí)”是喜歡；“愛(ài)一世”是愛(ài)。

You only truly love that one man with all of your heart and soul. Whatever you had with your other boyfriend was purelyinfatuation. It was empty and unfulfilling. While you may not have known it at the time, when a “Forever” comes along, you’ll understand.
你只會(huì)全心全意地真正去愛(ài)一個(gè)人。你對(duì)其他男朋友只有純粹的迷戀，這種感覺(jué)是空洞的、沒(méi)有滿足感?；蛟S你當(dāng)時(shí)不懂，但當(dāng)能陪你到永遠(yuǎn)的那個(gè)人來(lái)到你身邊時(shí)，你就懂了。

11. A “For Now” doesn’t know himself; a “Forever” learns about himself with you.
“愛(ài)一時(shí)”的男朋友連他自己都不懂自己；“愛(ài)一世”的男朋友跟你一起了解他自己。

The man you’re going to marry knows himself but has so much more to learn now that he’s found you. That other boyfriend barely knew who he was and couldn’t grow with you.
你要嫁的那個(gè)人了解他自己，但現(xiàn)在有了你之后、他對(duì)自己還有很多需要了解的地方；“愛(ài)一時(shí)”的男朋友只是知道自己是誰(shuí)，卻不會(huì)和你一起成長(zhǎng)。

12. A “For Now” is about weekends; a “Forever” is about weeks on end.
“愛(ài)一時(shí)”的男朋友只關(guān)心如何度過(guò)周末；“愛(ài)一世”的男朋友關(guān)心的是和你度過(guò)的每一周。

Your future husband isn’t the kind of guy who just plans on a party because he’s busy building a future with you. The other guys you’ve dated were far too shortsighted to go above and beyond.
將成為你丈夫的男朋友不是那種只會(huì)計(jì)劃辦聚會(huì)的人，因?yàn)樗χ湍阋黄鸾ㄔO(shè)未來(lái)。其他曾經(jīng)和你約會(huì)的男孩子都目光太短淺，不會(huì)想得太遠(yuǎn)、不會(huì)有所超越。

13. A “For Now” has a return label; a “Forever” is a done deal.
“愛(ài)一時(shí)”的男朋友天然帶有退貨標(biāo)簽；“愛(ài)一世”的男朋友是筆成功交易。

The guy who is your forever is as distinct as that vintage sweater you picked up in Chelsea. A guy who is only temporary is as returnable as a shirt from the Gap. He’s less pressure, but he’s bland.
永遠(yuǎn)陪你的那個(gè)人就像在切爾西買的復(fù)古毛衣一樣特別，暫時(shí)陪你的那個(gè)人就像在Gap買的T恤一樣是可以退貨的。他的壓力小，但也冷漠。

14. A “For Now” is trying it on for size; a “Forever” is the perfect fit.
“愛(ài)一時(shí)”的男朋友和你談戀愛(ài)只是試試看；“愛(ài)一世”的男朋友和你是最完美的搭配。

There are no alterations needed with the guy who’ll be in your life forever. With all of those other boyfriends of yesteryear, you were just trying on the relationships to find out if they fit. They never did.
和“愛(ài)一世”的男朋友在一起，你不需要做出改變；和愛(ài)一時(shí)的男朋友在一起，你們只是為了試試看彼此是否合適、而事實(shí)證明你們永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)合適。

15. A “For Now” holds your hand; a “Forever” holds your heart.
“愛(ài)一時(shí)”的男朋友握著你的手；“愛(ài)一世”的男朋友握著你的心。

That guy who is ‘The One’ is the person you give your whole heart to. A guy who’s just around for now, you hardly trust with your hand.
和“愛(ài)一世”的男朋友在一起，你會(huì)放心地把整個(gè)心交給他；和“愛(ài)一時(shí)”的男朋友在一起，你甚至連把手交給他握著都有些不放心。

16. A “For Now” means you’re looking for something better; a “Forever” means you’ve already found it.
與“愛(ài)一時(shí)”的男朋友在一起，你會(huì)尋找一個(gè)更好的人；與“愛(ài)一世”的男朋友在一起，你已經(jīng)找到了那個(gè)對(duì)的人。

You can call off the search when you meet the right man. Before you found him, you were always looking for next best thing. Now that he’s here, you’re finished wandering.
當(dāng)你找到對(duì)的人之后就不用繼續(xù)尋找了；在你找到他之前，你一直在尋找下一個(gè)更好的人。一旦找到對(duì)的人，你就不再徘徊。