VideoJug is here to help if geography is getting in the way of you and your loved one. Follow our guide on how to have a long distance relationship, and keep your relationship alive despite where you are in the world.
如果距離妨礙你和戀人愛情的發(fā)展，VideoJug來幫你。遵循我們的簡單建議，無論你們身在何方，距離不再是問題，愛情依然甜蜜蜜。

Step 1: Talk it through
1.傾心談話

You need to discuss your expectations of the relationship once you are apart, and set clear parameters. Are you going to be completely monogamous? Are you allowed to fool around?
你們要討論一下分別后你們對這段戀情的預(yù)期，并設(shè)立明確的范圍。你能完全做到對另一半死心塌地，還是可以出去鬼混？

There is a painful break-up on the horizon if one of you is waiting loyally at home while the other thinks out of sight is out of mind.
如果一方忠誠地等待，另一方卻認為眼不見心不煩，那么這段戀情離結(jié)束已經(jīng)不遠了。

Step 2: Communicate
2.溝通

The key to any relationship, but particularly crucial to long distance ones, is communication. As well as phonecalls there are so many ways to let your partner know you're thinking about them: send emails, texts, e-cards, love letters, flowers,scented clothes, or even saucy photos.
任何一段感情，尤其是異地戀的關(guān)鍵就是溝通。除了打電話之外還有很多方法讓你的戀人知道你想他（她）：發(fā)送郵件，發(fā)短信，電子賀卡，情書，鮮花，有香味的服裝，甚至是你的性感玉照。

TOP TIP 1: Don't send saucy photos of yourself in digital form- if your relationship crashes and burns, then they might end up in the public domain....
小貼士一：不要以數(shù)碼的形式發(fā)送你的性感玉照——萬一你們的戀情結(jié)束，你這些照片可能會被公開……

TOP TIP 2: Instant messaging is free and convenient. But remember, if you're chatting online and you can't see your partner's facial expression, even your in-jokes can fall flat. "Big nose" can sound cutesy and sweet when you are cuddled up to together, but has a different feel when written down.
小貼士二：即時訊息是免費的，而且很方便。但是要記住，如果你們在網(wǎng)上聊天，你看不到對方的面部表情，即使你們雙方能夠心領(lǐng)神會的笑話也起不到作用。當你們依偎在一起的時候，“大鼻子”聽上去可能非常甜蜜，但是寫出來卻是完全不同的感覺。

Step 3: Keep busy
3.保持忙碌

Problems may arise if one of you is busier than the other, particularly if you parted because of a new college course or job.If you feel isolated and jealous of your partner's new life, you should do all you can to fill up the time you would have spent with your partner. Meet up with old friends, throw yourself into a new hobby, and keep up your mutual interests. The alternative is this again....
如果其中一個人比另外一個人忙，你們的戀情也容易出現(xiàn)問題，尤其如果兩人是因為工作而分隔兩地的。如果你感到孤獨，而且為對方的新生活感到嫉妒，你應(yīng)該努力填補原本與戀人一起度過的時光。與老朋友會面，養(yǎng)成新的愛好，保持你們共同的興趣。

Step 4: The bright side
4.好的一面

If you're finding things difficult, take heart. You'll never have the dilemma of having to choose between seeing your partner and watching TV/ going to the football/ or washing your hair. You have freedom without the social stigma of being single, and the associated pressure of friends trying to set you up with someone. And if you're feeling frustrated in the bedroom,remember you've always got your phone.
如果你感到很難熬的話，鼓勵自己振作起來。你不會再面臨是去約會，還是看電視，踢足球，洗頭發(fā)的艱難選擇。你可以享受自由，卻不必承擔單身的污名，也不必承受朋友們試圖撮合你和某個人的尷尬局面。如果你一個人在臥室里感到沮喪，記得你還有電話。

Step 5: The big reunion
5.大團圓

The best thing about a long distance relationship is the dirty weekends you can have when you meet up again. Don't just wait for them to come home - go and visit them at their new place, or find romantic places to meet in the middle. If you've made the effort when you're apart, your time back together should go with a bang.
異地戀情最令人神往的就是周末的團聚。不要傻傻地等著他們回家——你也可以到他們的新地方探望他們，或者找一個浪漫的場所。如果你們分隔兩地的時候做出了努力，你們重新團聚的日子指日可待。

Thanks for watching video How To Have A Long Distance Relationship
感謝收看“異地戀情如何保鮮”視頻節(jié)目。

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